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This is a true story, though you may not believe it. But believing that the improbable is possible is what finding money is all about.

It was cold in Holland and I wanted my blanket. It wasn’t just any blanket—it was a soft, gray blanket made of wool, one that promised to keep me warm through the winter—and actually it wasn’t mine.

That blustery November day, when I saw the beautiful blanket, and then the price tag for 65 euros, my heart sank. A business deal had been delayed, and it appeared that I couldn’t afford the blanket until summer.

I slunk back to mychilly  apartment and delved into research for a book I was writing, trying not to think of my blanket. But I couldn’t stop. Every time my teeth chattered, I thought of my blanket that wasn’t mine.

Hours later, my obsession drove me to walk to the blanket store, by then closed, so I could peer at the object of my desire through the window. With every step I tried to convince myself that somehow, some way, I’d figure out how to make my dream of owning it come true.

“Something good will happen,” I chanted to myself. whipping around a corner onto a cobblestone street. The night was inky black and it started to rain; not a soul besides me was out that night in the Dutch village that I had just moved to. “Something really good will happen,” I kept chanting to myself. “And I will be so warm this winter with that gorgeous blanket.”

Five steps later, it happened – one of those little miracles that make you want to dance a jig, even if you’re not even Irish. As I approached the store, mere inches from the door, my spirits soared. On the sidewalk, flapping at me like a long lost friend was a small bundle of cash. Counting it, I was flabbergast: I was holding precisely 65 euros!

Finding Money, Manifesting Dreams

“Thank you money gods yet again!” I yelled to the heavens. The next morning I bought my blanket.

quote open Money isn’t everything, but finding money when you need it is a blessing, and a potent illustration that we can manquote closeifest our dreams.

It was at least the thirtieth time that the powers-that-be in charge of the lost money department have bailed me out in times of need. In the past two decades, I’ve stumbled upon wads, stacks, and envelopes of hard, cold, ID-less cash — in hallways, on escalators, in back alleys and on well-traveled sidewalks. My total find to date is around two thousand dollars.It’s not that I’m any luckier than anyone else, or that I telekinetically will bills out of pockets and into my hands.The reason I’ve enriched my life and wallet thusly, is that I know the secret of how to find money. And in order to make more, I’m passing on my tips to you.

TIP ONE: Curiosity Pays 

Foremost on the list of practicalities is the money finder’s motto: Look down! Oh sure, people may think you suffer from low self-esteem, but I’ve found bundles of money that was being literally stepped over by people who held their heads high, as they walked by tsk-tsking my low self-regard and bad posture. And curiousity is the key. If you see an envelope or bag, look into it.

When my friend Shad peered into a garbage bag on the street, he found the the $3000 that funded a move to Oregon. When Robert looked into a sack left in the back of a cab, he found $5000. When I saw a manila envelope in the middle of a street — despite my friend Sara’s loud warnings not to — I picked it up. Inside was a sheet of stamps, which, predictably, Sara insisted I split with her.

TIP TWO: Believe 
Perhaps the most important requirement for finding cash is sincerely believing that finding money can happen. I’ve noticed that most of the people who come upon lost bills are often the fanciful sort who say “Anything is possible!”
Conversely, those people with a confined and restricted view of the world — the sort who are quick to point out “You’ll never this…” or “It’s impossible that…” usually never find so much as an unchewed stick of gum.

I’d always thought the most money you could find on the street was probably a Canadian dime until my friend, Andrea, found a $100 bill fluttering in a parking lot. Shortly thereafter, I began finding rolls of dough — one time $85, another, $170, another time nearly $200, with plenty of fives and tens and twenties scattered about in between.

TIP THREE: Ask for It
Most of the money finders I know admit that before finding their finds, they had requested financial assistance from the universe.
In the era before the euro, Joy, a traveler in Amsterdam, saw a dress that cost 200 guilder on her way to the station to catch a train to France. “If I only had 200 guilder, I’d buy it,” she mused. And while waiting for a bus to the station, two 100 guilder notes literally floated through the air. She missed her train, and bought the dress.
My sister, a tour guide, had once spent two weeks giving particular attention to one of her more demanding travelers, only to find at the end of the tour the woman departed without so much as a thanks or a tip. “I should have gotten 50 deutschmark from her,” my sister lamented to a friend. Within the hour, 50 deutschmark blew down the street and landed at my sister’s feet.

I’ve found that the occasional hissy fit can work wonders.
When I’d spent my rent money on putting together a proposal for a public service project — that fell through — I lost it. For two hours I wailed about how I was trying to help the world, getting up to bat, and not only was my proposal rejected, I was a financial reject as well. “Can’t I at least pay my rent? Is that too much to ask?” I bellowed to the heavens. Upon leaving my house to withdraw my last five dollars from the bank, I found almost exactly the amount needed for my share of the house — $187. It was a pile merely sitting there on a bench outside the bank, without a potential owner in sight.

My roomates Shawn and Faustine were amazed when I showed them the roll of money that had magically entered my life.
“Well if you can find money it, I can find it too!” Faustine said.
Five days later, Shawn and Faustine ran into the house.
“Look what Faustine just found in a phone booth!” Shawn yelled.
Faustine waved a black coin purse, that contained no ID, and pulled out a roll of twenties online casino totalling $224.

TIP FOUR: Go with Your Gut
My friend Clayton knew that there was no way he could afford the house he’d just seen with a “for sale” sign out front — a sea captain’s house that sat over a cliff in misty Astoria, Oregon. To distract himself from the thought of the rambling house, he went out shopping at second-hand stores, and saw a frame that caught his eye. He picked it up and put it back.

Two blocks away, the thought of the frame began haunting him as much as the thought of the house. He walked back to the store and bought the frame, despite an uncompelling dog photo within it.

It was when he got home, and took out the dog picture that he found enough money – though he would never I januari 2004 kunder polisen gripa tre personer som tillsammans ranat spelare som vunnit pengar pa online sverige casinon Cosmopol i Stockholm. disclose the amount — to buy the sea captain’s home.

I’ve found that finding money is often foreshadowed by a nagging feeling. While lodging in a Parisian hotel, I became ridiculously obsessed with the need for an envelope. Although the hotel was not the sort to provide stationary, I just knew there was an envelope somewhere in that room, and began pulling out drawers searching for one. Simply because it proved my intuition was correct, I was elated that when I indeed found an envelope; I was even more thrilled, when I opened it to find 100 British pounds inside. quote open The improbable and the magical are, in factquote close, possible…

TIP FIVE: Pay Your Dues
Despite these examples, there is no such thing as a free find. A would-be finder must lose some money first; I tend to lose my last dollar. When you discovered that money has accidentallyt fluttered out of your hands in into that of another, regard it as a donation to the money finders’ union. Happily money finders usually find many multiples of the amount they lost. For example, I’m currently working at about a 30-to-1 find-to-lose ratio.

TIP SIX: Be Honest
Money finders are usually honest sorts. Not only are they the tell-the-truth breed, they have usually found purses, wallets, even passports — and have returned them, complete with all their contents. Money attached to ID is a karmic test. Turn it in, with the hope that you’ll soon be rewarded — not necessarily by the loser, but by the universe.
The one person I know who kept a wallet never found another dollar again, and has been plagued by bad financial luck ever since.
Do-gooders of other varieties may win as well. When Joe, a guy I met on a French train, picked up his cigarette butt from a pristine Munich sidewalk, he noticed a slightly open paper sack atop the trash can. Inside: the deutsch equivalent of about $500.

TIP SEVEN: Give Your Thanks
Upon coming upon ID-less cash, wish good things upon whoever it was who lost your find, and express your gratitude to whoever it was that brought it your way.

quote open Finding money reminds us that life on this planet is an unpredictable, alchemical process that our wquote closeishes can shape.

TIP EIGHT: Finding Money Can Be A Repeat Performance
The strange thing about finding money is that once you find it, you usually find it again, whatever the reason. After finding money at the same corner – Broadway near 85th in Manhattan — I came to believe some kind soul was tossing it from their window. And I found money three times with the same person, David P., my good luck charm.

TIP NINE: Pass It On
Since you have a better chance of finding money when it’s already been earmarked for something, I find it’s best spent on whatever it was wished for — whether that’s rent or a vacation. However, most money finders are generous people, who when they are solvent, are quick to help out someone who isn’t. And, while some people regard it is bragging, I think it’s helpful to tell people about finding money. The point isn’t to show how lucky you are, but to let them know that if you can find money, they surely can too. Which is exactly what I’m saying to you.

TIP TEN: Expand Beyond the Material
A random bill blowing into your world is a lovely way to see the magic of life. I believe that is the true purpose of finding money: to remind us that life on this planet is an unpredictable, alchemical process that our wishes can shape. The improbable and the magical are, in fact, possible — to those who believe that it is, and especially to those who look down.

Melissa Rossi is often mistaken for someone with low self-esteem.

 
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About Melissa Rossi

Born in Dayton, Ohio, Melissa Rossi's first words were, "Get me outta here!" She's been moving around since she was 17 — living in Seattle, Portland and assorted other parts of the Pacific Northwest as well as in New York, Vermont, and Florida (let's not talk about Iowa and Kentucky). After writing a book about Courtney Love (Courtney Love: Queen of Noise), which Courtney didn't like, Rossi decided to become a world traveler, and has visited most European countries. She has also lived in assorted parts of Spain, Italy, the Netherlands and Belgium. Fluent in "Spitalnishsian" — an Italian, Spanish blend with a dash of Russian thrown in — Rossi has written for such publications as National Geographic Traveler, Newsweek, MSNBC and George, and is the author of What Every American Should Know about the Rest of the World (Plume/Penguin, 2003). A chronic sufferer of "Urban Deficit Disorder" — she can't focus on one city for long — Rossi probably will never settle down long enough to call one place her home.

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